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Someone criticizes you — first move?

A Ask clarifying questions B Defend with evidence C Smooth it over D Match their energy

A Pause + process B Address it head-on C Joke it lighter D Leave the room

A Voice note clarity B Debate until resolved C Heart react + later D Paragraph warfare

A Learning opportunity B Temporary setback C Socially awkward D Unacceptable tonight

A Structured talk B Intellectual closure C Quick hug reset D Space then fireworks reconciliation

A Fair B Formidable C Soft landing D Legendary